By Your Side

Sometimes, we just can't reach our hands for the one we love,
We just can't be there for them when they need us most,
When they're sick,
We can't be there to care for them,
We can't comfort them,
We can't give them the warmth they want,
All that we can do is,
To show our deepest concern for them.

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Side note to a sick friend today :-

Get Well Soon ya !!(^_^)v

Someone sick jor =P

What is Your Cup of Tea??

Enjoying a nice cup of tea is really really nice, but everyone have their favorite cup of tea. It's just a matter of self preference. This concept applies the same to love. Let me just you how similar love selection and enjoying a cup of tea can be.
Firstly, is simple, we pick a cup we think we might like or preferred. The design, the exterior features. So, this is the outer features of someone. So might like a solid cup, some might like a colourful and joyful cup, and some like an expensive cup.

So, we select one out of the hundreds

Once we have picked the cup, is now the time to pick the tea. Now this is the matter of taste. The inner taste. Whether it is cool or warm etc.
*Warning* You can't really know how it taste until you have tasted it right? As all tea you see might look nice but it might also turn out bad. So be careful during the choosing process.

Unknown tea bags to be choose from sometimes, which is good and which is bad?

Now, we have the cup and the tea, now is time to add in the hot water and wait patiently for the tea leaves to "open". As a cook always say, "the preparing method is very important", so the process will influence the tea at the end. Too fast and it will end up tasteless, too slow and the tea will become too bitter. The right timing is always the best.

Tea went bad. When this happens, throw them away ok?

After patiently waiting for the tea to fully be as one with the cup and water, it is time to cherish and enjoy them. For all the things we went through to get this nice cup of tea rite?

Sometimes we just don't know what we can find in a nice cup of tea =)

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Sometimes, everyone wants the same cup of tea. What will you do?

PS: "Sometimes, it does not matter why or what, I just love you for who you are, and even if I'm not your cup of tea, I will still wait here patiently, for the moment you pour in the hot water"

Sometimes, we just can't show enough.

"I love you thiiis much, or even more but I'm afraid my arms are too short to express just how much I LOVE you."

If would your boyfriend/girlfriend ask you how much you love him/her? What would you answer?

This is something unmeasurable by anyone. There's answer such as "I love you forever" &
"I love you more than some highest mountain or some largest ocean in what-so-ever land", but do this really show how much you love a person? Words are infinity, that is one might say something and not do the same. Let's say for example(something that happen very often), Ah Beng and Ah Lian is a couple, and during their honeymoon moons, they said they loved each other for eternity and more. But after 3 months, they broke up and ended up hating each other. So its your love that is "eternity" only last for a moment?

Or do we say something like, "If you love me this much , you would go and buy me a Ferrari, Gucci Bag, LV Purse etc.?" Is love something measurable by money? Can we make out some equation for how deep is our love? Seriously, I don't know and if anyone out there have some ways to measure them, then please do let me know =)

Is this the equation?

To me, love is not measurable. It is shown and expressed to the one you love. And of course you can't compare them with others. You can't go telling you friends, my girlfriend love me more cause she's more pretty or my boyfriend love me more cause he buys me a Ferrari. If love can be measured this way, then our daily conversation will ended up like this,

Girl 1: My boyfriend-hor, very love me one! He bought me a bag-lah
Girl 2: My boyfriend love me more-lah, he bought me a Nike bag!
Girl 3: Nono, my boyfriend more-lah! he bought me a Gucci bag!
Girl 4: Mine more mine more, he bought me a LV bag you know!
Girl 5: My boyfriend is the best lah he bought me a gold, diamond decorated, silver plating bag from some ang moh country!

(Things just goes on, and it will never ends)

Every individual is different from another, we show and express our love in different way, but most importantly we are there for the one we love when they need us most.

"Sometimes, we don't stop loving someone, we just stop showing it, it is and always will be in our hearts =)"

PS: Don't take things for granted or you will regret it someday.

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"It hurts to love some and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel"

Talking To Her Through Handphone

UTAR Mega-Event!

Alas, the long awaited most exciting, most thrilling, most heart-beating, most gila-babeng, most mind blowing event of the semester is starting tomorrow! Guess what it is! Is the FINALS!! Yes Yes! This event is held for 2 weeks approximately for all Year 1 Sem 2 students.
It includes many many sub events such as Economics, Quantitative Techniques and many many more, which we can join up to 5 sub-events. As for some VIP students, they will be having 6 sub-events and some are even luckier with 7 ! I myself is a VIP which will be joining for 6. So come on in and join the fun!

To join this, all you have to do is :
1. Be an official UTAR student.
2. Bring equipments which will be helpful to you such as pens, pencils etc.
3. Obey all rules and regulation set by our organizer, UTAR.

It's that simple, and everyone stand a chance to have fun and win! The prizes are as following;

Grand Prize : Termination Ticket
1st Prize: Probation Ticket
2nd Prize: Retake Ticket
3rd Prize: Resit Ticket

For all that didn't win anything, don't worry, you are all entitled to a Stay-in-UTAR Ticket or a President-List Ticket.

So Good Luck my friends and everyone! Hope you don't win the top 4 prizes k? =D

What Guys do When They Likes a Girl.

I think most guys out there all feel in love before at least once, or countless of times. They said girls are emotional, well guys are the same too. Agree? So this is the few things we do when we like a girl.

1. Always think of her and think more of her.
We will always be thinking of the girl we like ler, when we sleep, eat, drink, when playing DoTA etc. etc. "Makan Fikir Dia, Minum Fikir Dia, Semua Pun Fikir Dia"

2. Always try to ask her out.
This is when the guy keep asking the girl to go out for a movie, to go shopping or yum cha(not really) or even just to accompany us to buy a teh tarik in a mamak.

3. Worried about everything related to her.
"She got boyfriend?" "What she think of me?" "Am I annoying?" "Oh my god, she like xxx!" "She's a lesbian! wtf." Guys eventually ask her friends all these questions and asked them to keep quiet about it.

4. Shower her with gifts, flowers etc.
Guys are generous-lah, we give presents and gifts to the girl we like. If the girl would just say something like "Wah! that doll so cute-lah!", the guy will absof*ckinglutely buy for her instantly, or secretly buy and give her.

5. Become jealous at times.
When we see the girl being close with her bunch of guy friends, we become jealous.

6. Keep call, sms, msn, icq, skype or what-so-ever IM with her.
We will text her whenever-however-whatever possible. The only way to stop us is to break our handphones and computers.

7. Become EMO
Become very emo when the girl ignores us, said something that hurt us etc. Or we even emo for thinking too much nonsense or for no reason at all.

8. Became annoying until confession.
Because we care for the girl so much, we become annoying, over-protective and we bother them too much.

I think there's lots more things guys do when we really like a girl(not for the sake of companionship, cause she's pretty, cause she's rich, cause "kau lui" is your hobby or you friend dare you to "kau" her) but the girl as you see her as. You know, loving someone is seeing perfection in imperfection.
Girls, don't just avoid the guys when they start to annoy you, just tell them off if you really don't like them.
Now now, who say guys are not emo enough?

Just my 2 cents =)