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Self-Confidence

This will be a very very very very and I do mean very boring post if you read it out of the blues.
Self-confidence, a word we often see and heard from anywhere and everyone. However so, do you really know what it really means? and do you have the sufficient confidence needed in your life?

Let me share something I gained from my organization behavior tutorial class wtf!? It's called self-fulling prophecy, and to put it simple we can call it self-confidence lar~. Saying that if we are confidence about ourself that we will achieve something, we will achieve it and if we are not confidence at all, we will just never get there.

Hmm..don't think you get it, let's use 2 example to explain things up.

Let's use a primary school kid-lah.

Example 1 (Typical Kiasu Mom)
Mother: Boy ah, you very stupid one lor, go school also no use lah! I give birth to a "char siew" better than you lah!

Example 2 (Understanding Mom)
Mother: You are smart one! very very super duper smart lah! Just like Bill Gates lah!

If your in a situation where your mom always repeat sentences like this, you will just end up like that. If ones parents keep saying their child stupid, sure-lah he or she will become stupid! And if ones parents would encourage and nurture their child properly than won't it be better by the end of the day.

Let's use another example.

Girl 1 thinks she's not attractive and have low self confidence to socialize and even to smile, by all means she will look like what she perceive-lah!

However if,

Girl 2 thinks she's attractive enough and have confidence about herself, than of course she will shine better when socializing-lor.

Ok, did I knock some senses into you yet?

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Not yet huh? Lemme show you this!

Hmmm... abit over confidence I think =P

This post is dedicated to you, that keep saying yourself fat-lor, you're not fat and your just you and that's something you should be proud off. Everyone is different and by all means everyone is beautiful in one way or another, it's just the way we perceive and see things.

Web Tools / Nokia IAC Bands/Jrock Kingdom Ruums

Here's some websites which are useful for everyday purposes-lah, (I think)

1. Leechz MegaUpload Premium Download Link Generator
This is a website where they gives a link where it generates a link for premium downloads. So there is no need for slots are full and etc.

Leechz

2. 3Proxy
A website where you can begin surfing with a proxy, when you need an IP change or the site won't allow you to access it. For example porn download websites.

3Proxy

3. MapDoo
Just like GoogleEarth but online and can search throughout Malaysia. Try to find your house lah~

Mapdoo

Hope it helps you guys and gals. Cheers =D

Note to self: Law examination is in less that 48 hours, and revision done currently is 0%. Current activities : DoTA and Typing this post!

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NoKia IAC Bands @ Zouk /Jrock Kingdom @ Ruums

To all my friends that don't know about this event, want go boh?

Or we can go ruums for cosplay/attire party, confirm can see alot gothic, lolita leng lui de lor~ hiak hiak.

Law Study Guide

Tips i get from Wan Ying, check it out guys and put a thank you.

LAW

Of Freaks Of Norms Of Majority Of Minority

Have you ever experience backstabbing situation before? or just a situation where your "friends" boycott/outcast you? Even if you don't realize it sometimes, it do happens.

Boycott happens all the time, whether it is large or small scale only

This happens when when you just don't "click" with the group you mix in or they just have a perception that you are different, you are too ugly, you are too smart or they are too HEAVENLY-ALMIGHTY to mix with you. And by so, you are being labeled "FREAK" to them.

Its not like we look like some alien for outer space also, and even so what's that gotta do with you?

Who makes the norm?Is it the majority? or the "popular" gang? What gives you the right to comment on others? We humans are creatures afraid of loneliness, so we get in groups. But sometimes because of some bad-ass apples are in the group, conflicts happens. Get me clear I'm referring to those idiots that backstab others. Just because someone is special, you don't have to get jealous and make everyone hate that person.

If you are wondering how a bad-ass apple look like, here it is

This is the innocent apple, stabbed from every corner

Human like I said are afraid of lonesome and stick in groups, so if few people of a group says something, others will agree too whether if they like it or not, cause they are afraid to lose the group. So few bad-ass apples makes up a story and everyone listen to him, and there goes someone innocent.

one person starts pointing and the rest follows

Can't we just talk things out? People can change if you tell them, but instead you are backstabbing here and there WTF? Grow up please you immatures!

PS: This is a post dedicated to myself and friends of mine which experienced or experiencing these situations.

Manage Your Final's Stress

It's easy to manage stress.

Step 1
Stare at your monitor.

Step 2
Inhale lot's of oxygen

Step 3
Exhale

Step 4
Repeat Step 2-3 multiple times

Step 5
Write down all the things that you are stressed about

Step 6
Now begin to stare at your monitor...

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Step 7

Or here

If you don't do so, you will end up like this...

Does Blogging Have a Marking Scheme?

Does blogging have a marking scheme to determine who's a good blogger and who's not? As I scroll through Innit at times, I see flames of people danging here and there. And does the band of the blogger determines the quality of the blogger? Seriously, I don't know.

But I know in the education system there's always been something called marking scheme and with this we are given grades for the examination/answer we wrote. And for some dim-witted situations, the markers/lecturers/teachers are not familiar with the subject or examination course they are marking, so to put it simple shit happens all the time.

Does the lecturers that mark our paper even read it, or the just go "keywords" treasure hunting?

As for my university, some imbecile mark the paper accordingly 100% to the marking scheme this includes synonyms and the writing format. So if we write a word, similarly to the "keyword", we get a zero,0. Doesn't matter even if we understand the question or not, they just want us to write it the way it is in the textbook/notes. In other words, we need to memorize and eat a whole 1kg textbook for each subject(not including notes). Come on-lah! students are human too, we don't have some out-of-the-world memory card slot to put kilograms of textbook and notes into us.

If we need to memorize this much of book, then we would spent the rest of our lifes with books too! Makan Buku, Tidur Buku and maybe Kahwin Buku also.

In my opinion, the education system of Malaysia is kinda messed up. We don't learn by understanding the subject but instead we learn by memorizing, so if we're given a practical situation, many would be unable to comprehend or even know what to do or what to apply. Remember our "Pendidikan Moral" we used to have? The 12 or 18 "nilai-nilais" I assume, what use does it gives? We memorized them to score for SPM but does all the "A" scorers apply the values they had learned from the subject? Similarly, this applies to almost all subjects in my university. If we only get an "A" by memorizing, I don't think I need that "A", it is just not right.

"Politeness", I bet everyone in Malaysia is very polite =)

The university education system give mission and vision statements that are to build independent students that can think and act on their own, saying that they want to build future leaders etc. but in reality they are teaching us to be followers of a higher authority. By all means, we must obey, follow and shut up!

This is "not" my university's rules.

I am not even allowed to comment about my university as it is written in the "rule and regulations guide" if I'm not mistaken, so everyone please do me a favor and SHHhhhhh =P

PS: I hope that blogs are not rated by some what-so-ever marking scheme as blogging to me is about writing your thoughts and writing about yourself in it, not about how many ads you have or how popular you are.

PSS:
"All coincidence and similarity mention in this post are just mere creation and/or imagination which has no relation with reality. It is by all means to be fiction and not real, any inconvenience caused is much regretted and will not be entertained"
-Darrius