Monday, June 23, 2008
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Self-Confidence
This will be a very very very very and I do mean very boring post if you read it out of the blues.
Self-confidence, a word we often see and heard from anywhere and everyone. However so, do you really know what it really means? and do you have the sufficient confidence needed in your life?
Let me share something I gained from my organization behavior tutorial class wtf!? It's called self-fulling prophecy, and to put it simple we can call it self-confidence lar~. Saying that if we are confidence about ourself that we will achieve something, we will achieve it and if we are not confidence at all, we will just never get there.
Hmm..don't think you get it, let's use 2 example to explain things up.
Let's use a primary school kid-lah.
Example 1 (Typical Kiasu Mom)
Mother: Boy ah, you very stupid one lor, go school also no use lah! I give birth to a "char siew" better than you lah!
Example 2 (Understanding Mom)
Mother: You are smart one! very very super duper smart lah! Just like Bill Gates lah!
If your in a situation where your mom always repeat sentences like this, you will just end up like that. If ones parents keep saying their child stupid, sure-lah he or she will become stupid! And if ones parents would encourage and nurture their child properly than won't it be better by the end of the day.
Let's use another example.
Girl 1 thinks she's not attractive and have low self confidence to socialize and even to smile, by all means she will look like what she perceive-lah!
However if,
Girl 2 thinks she's attractive enough and have confidence about herself, than of course she will shine better when socializing-lor.
Ok, did I knock some senses into you yet?
Hmmm... abit over confidence I think =P
Self-confidence, a word we often see and heard from anywhere and everyone. However so, do you really know what it really means? and do you have the sufficient confidence needed in your life?
Let me share something I gained from my organization behavior tutorial class wtf!? It's called self-fulling prophecy, and to put it simple we can call it self-confidence lar~. Saying that if we are confidence about ourself that we will achieve something, we will achieve it and if we are not confidence at all, we will just never get there.
Hmm..don't think you get it, let's use 2 example to explain things up.
Let's use a primary school kid-lah.
Example 1 (Typical Kiasu Mom)
Mother: Boy ah, you very stupid one lor, go school also no use lah! I give birth to a "char siew" better than you lah!
Example 2 (Understanding Mom)
Mother: You are smart one! very very super duper smart lah! Just like Bill Gates lah!
If your in a situation where your mom always repeat sentences like this, you will just end up like that. If ones parents keep saying their child stupid, sure-lah he or she will become stupid! And if ones parents would encourage and nurture their child properly than won't it be better by the end of the day.
Let's use another example.
Girl 1 thinks she's not attractive and have low self confidence to socialize and even to smile, by all means she will look like what she perceive-lah!
However if,
Girl 2 thinks she's attractive enough and have confidence about herself, than of course she will shine better when socializing-lor.
Ok, did I knock some senses into you yet?
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Not yet huh? Lemme show you this!

This post is dedicated to you, that keep saying yourself fat-lor, you're not fat and your just you and that's something you should be proud off. Everyone is different and by all means everyone is beautiful in one way or another, it's just the way we perceive and see things.
Sunday, May 4, 2008
Web Tools / Nokia IAC Bands/Jrock Kingdom Ruums
Here's some websites which are useful for everyday purposes-lah, (I think)
1. Leechz MegaUpload Premium Download Link Generator
This is a website where they gives a link where it generates a link for premium downloads. So there is no need for slots are full and etc.
1. Leechz MegaUpload Premium Download Link Generator
This is a website where they gives a link where it generates a link for premium downloads. So there is no need for slots are full and etc.
Leechz
2. 3Proxy
A website where you can begin surfing with a proxy, when you need an IP change or the site won't allow you to access it. For exampleporn download websites.
A website where you can begin surfing with a proxy, when you need an IP change or the site won't allow you to access it. For example
3Proxy
3. MapDoo
Just like GoogleEarth but online and can search throughout Malaysia. Try to find your house lah~
Just like GoogleEarth but online and can search throughout Malaysia. Try to find your house lah~
Mapdoo
Hope it helps you guys and gals. Cheers =D
Note to self: Law examination is in less that 48 hours, and revision done currently is 0%. Current activities : DoTA and Typing this post!
Note to self: Law examination is in less that 48 hours, and revision done currently is 0%. Current activities : DoTA and Typing this post!
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NoKia IAC Bands @ Zouk /Jrock Kingdom @ Ruums
To all my friends that don't know about this event, want go boh?
Or we can go ruums for cosplay/attire party, confirm can see alot gothic, lolita leng lui de lor~ hiak hiak.
NoKia IAC Bands @ Zouk /Jrock Kingdom @ Ruums


Saturday, May 3, 2008
Of Freaks Of Norms Of Majority Of Minority
Have you ever experience backstabbing situation before? or just a situation where your "friends" boycott/outcast you? Even if you don't realize it sometimes, it do happens.
This happens when when you just don't "click" with the group you mix in or they just have a perception that you are different, you are too ugly, you are too smart or they are too HEAVENLY-ALMIGHTY to mix with you. And by so, you are being labeled "FREAK" to them.
Its not like we look like some alien for outer space also, and even so what's that gotta do with you?
Who makes the norm?Is it the majority? or the "popular" gang? What gives you the right to comment on others? We humans are creatures afraid of loneliness, so we get in groups. But sometimes because of some bad-ass apples are in the group, conflicts happens. Get me clear I'm referring to those idiots that backstab others. Just because someone is special, you don't have to get jealous and make everyone hate that person.

If you are wondering how a bad-ass apple look like, here it is
This is the innocent apple, stabbed from every corner
Human like I said are afraid of lonesome and stick in groups, so if few people of a group says something, others will agree too whether if they like it or not, cause they are afraid to lose the group. So few bad-ass apples makes up a story and everyone listen to him, and there goes someone innocent.
Can't we just talk things out? People can change if you tell them, but instead you are backstabbing here and there WTF? Grow up please you immatures!
PS: This is a post dedicated to myself and friends of mine which experienced or experiencing these situations.
This happens when when you just don't "click" with the group you mix in or they just have a perception that you are different, you are too ugly, you are too smart or they are too HEAVENLY-ALMIGHTY to mix with you. And by so, you are being labeled "FREAK" to them.

Who makes the norm?Is it the majority? or the "popular" gang? What gives you the right to comment on others? We humans are creatures afraid of loneliness, so we get in groups. But sometimes because of some bad-ass apples are in the group, conflicts happens. Get me clear I'm referring to those idiots that backstab others. Just because someone is special, you don't have to get jealous and make everyone hate that person.

If you are wondering how a bad-ass apple look like, here it is

Human like I said are afraid of lonesome and stick in groups, so if few people of a group says something, others will agree too whether if they like it or not, cause they are afraid to lose the group. So few bad-ass apples makes up a story and everyone listen to him, and there goes someone innocent.
Can't we just talk things out? People can change if you tell them, but instead you are backstabbing here and there WTF? Grow up please you immatures!
PS: This is a post dedicated to myself and friends of mine which experienced or experiencing these situations.

Thursday, May 1, 2008
Manage Your Final's Stress

It's easy to manage stress.
Step 1
Stare at your monitor.
Step 2
Inhale lot's of oxygen
Step 3
Exhale
Step 4
Repeat Step 2-3 multiple times
Step 5
Write down all the things that you are stressed about
Step 6
Now begin to stare at your monitor...
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Step 7

If you don't do so, you will end up like this...

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